07 July, 2013

How to attract girls towards yourself !

Impress her with your personality:

Having a great personality and being relatable is an important part of getting a girl to like you. Let's face it: Girls look for different things in guys than guys look for in girls. So let the great parts of your personality shine through to her, and work on fixing the parts of your personality that you don't like.

Be funny:

Girls love funny guys. If you can make a girl laugh, then you have a good shot at making her fall in love with you. Practice jokes on your friends (guy-friends and girl-friends, because there's a difference of what they find funny) and keep the jokes that work and throw away the jokes that don't.

Be playful:

Studies have found that girls are attracted to guys who are playful.[1]
Being playful is attractive because it shows youthfulness and the ability to have fun. So find your inner child, throw away all the ideas about what you think you should and shouldn't do, and play around, especially when you're with her.

Be interesting:

Girls like guys who have interesting lives, and who do cool things for fun. As long as you're passionate about something, and you get involved in doing that or learning about it, you'll be more attractive in her eyes. No girl just wants to sit around and watch you play video games all day.

Be mysterious:

A little mystery goes a long way. Don't let her in on every little thing you're doing. Hint more than you usually do, and downplay things instead of being really excited. Mystery will make you a puzzle in her book, and she'll want to solve you.
Have great conversations with her:
You don't have to talk about books or high-culture or any of that stuff. All it takes is getting an opportunity to talk with her and running with it. Once you have that chance to talk to her, ask her good questions, and listen to what she says.
Questions you can ask her are:
"Where did you grow up?"
"What do you want to do when you grow up?"
"What do your parents do for a living?"
"Do you have any brothers or sisters?"
"Have you traveled anywhere interesting," to name a few.

Find a way to compliment her:

Don't compliment her all the time, because it will become obvious that you're really into her. But try to give her at least one nice compliment. If it's done in the right way, it's guaranteed that she'll remember the compliment, and remember you as well.
If you're really confident, give her a compliment about her looks, like "Your eyes are a pretty color green," or "Your hairstyle makes you look really pretty."
If you're a little nervous about complimenting her, say something like "I really like how you stick up for people," or "You're really smart; where did you learn all of that?"
Find out what you're smart at. Girls like guys who are smart. That doesn't mean you have to be Einstein to get a girl, but it does mean that you have to be smart about "something". Find out what you're smart about. Maybe it's sports, maybe it's stock car racing, maybe it's indian History. Be proud of what you're smart about and don't be afraid of hiding it.

Make friends:

Making friends is a social sign that you have a lot to offer, and that people generally like you. If you don't have too many friends and don't want to make more, that's fine. But if you're a social guy and you enjoy the company of others, put yourself out there and start making friends. She'll see the attention you're getting from other people and wonder what she's missing.
Make friends with cool girls, especially. If you make friends with other girls, that tells her that she can trust you because other girls trust you. Pretty soon, you'll grow more comfortable around them. Making friends with girls is especially smart because you might hear information about her — what she likes, what she doesn't like, who she's interested in — that could be valuable later on.
Be the guy who everyone wants to be around. Be an all-around guy. Be able to talk to the goths, jocks, popular kids, geeks, and everyone else. She will feel way more comfortable around you knowing that you are cool with everyone you know, instead of being the lonely guy in the back of the classroom who has no friends. Start slow, though. You don't need to be friends with everyone all of a sudden.
Make sure you're clean and put-together:
Girls, for the most part, like guys who are clean, smell good, and aren't constantly sweating. Guys, for the most part, don't care about these things as much. So, listen up, guys: If you want to impress a girl, you're going to have to pay attention to how clean you are.
Shower every day. Make sure you hop in the shower or take a bath every day. If you play sports after school, you may want to shower in the nighttime, after you come home from practice. Shampoo your hair every other day. If you're smelling clean and natural, girls will be more comfortable coming close to you and even hugging you.
Wash your face in the morning and at night. Some guys get acne or pimples as they get older and their bodies start to change. The treatment for acne is to wash your face gently, twice a day, and get topical (meaning: something you put on top of) creams that you put on your pimples right before going to sleep. If you start to have serious problems with pimples, see a doctor. But if your face is looking nice and spot-free, girls will see how handsome you are without anything distracting them.
Wear deodorant, not cologne. Cologne is mostly for grown ups, and cheap cologne doesn't really smell that good. For boys, a nice, simple deodorant will do. You don't have to smell really good; you just have to not smell bad. Remember that deodorants that have a strong smell will start to smell different once they mix with your sweat.

Have good style:

Clothes can be expensive, and buying them can be a hassle. But even if you don't have a lot of money to spend on clothes, you can still take care to look your best. Style isn't about money at all. Style is about working well with what you already have.
Wear nice clothes. Not just around her, but also when you leave the house. If your clothes have a bunch of holes in them, or are dirty, or don't really fit you, chances are she's going to notice a bad way. If you can, impress her with the clothes you wear. If you can't afford new clothes, don't worry: if you have a great personality and you're really sweet to her, this step won't matter.
Stick with basic, classic clothes instead of flashy and fancy. There's a time and a place for fancy, and unless you've already graduated college, you don't have to worry about it yet. You don't need to wear loud button-up shirts that have a bunch of logos on them to impress a girl. Girls like classic clothes, like a good pair of jeans, a nice, form-fitting t-shirt, and a matching sweater. Don't try to blow her away with your clothes; try to blow her away with your charm, your humor, and your interest in her.

Be consistent:

if you're going for a certain look, be consistent about it. It's not wrong to wear really preppy clothes one day and punk clothes the next, but it's jarring, and you're sending mixed messages. Stick to one style and own it.

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