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What's the hardest truth of life?

The 15 hardest truths of life : 9-5 corporate job never make you rich. Grass is always greener on the other side. Appreciate what you have. If you take people for granted, they might walk away from your life. Age doesn’t define maturtiy and intellect. Everyone you love is going to die one day. Everything ends. Youth, love, life, all ends, and that's what makes them valuable. We give our lives meaning. If you feel like life is meaningless, that's your fault. Life is a suffering caused by desires. Happiness is inversely proportional to expectations. Be it good or bad, things happen when you expect them the least. What you have materialistically, is not who you are. Time is the ultimate game changer so never be too arrogant in life. Falling in love is fate, but how you wait for someone defines how truly you love him/her. Health is more important than wealth. Nothing in life is permanent so we should enjoy every experience while it last. Also, the life is never fair, it will never

जीवन ने आपको कौन से सबक सिखाए है?

1. आपकी सफलता से आपके परिवार के अलावा कोई भी खुश नहीं है। 2. प्यार एक मिथक है। बिना वजह कोई आपका दोस्त नहीं है। 3. बिना किसी अपेक्षा के आपसे प्यार करने वाले केवल आपके माता-पिता हैं। 4. आपके जीवन में हर किसी की एक भूमिका होती है और जब उनकी भूमिका समाप्त हो जाती है, तो वे आपको छोड़ देंगे। तो मजबूत बनो। 5. पैसे का हर किसी के जीवन में एक मजबूत स्थान होता है, लेकिन दुर्भाग्य से, यह आपको सब कुछ नहीं खरीद सकता। 6. सबके साथ हंसें, लेकिन किसी पर भरोसा न करें। 7. लोग कहते हैं सच बोलो लेकिन हकीकत में कोई सुनना नहीं चाहता। 8. आप जो सोचते हैं या जो करते हैं उसके बारे में कोई भी बकवास नहीं करता है, यह केवल आपका दृष्टिकोण है कि वे आपके बारे में सोचते हैं। 9. उम्मीद हमेशा दर्द देती है। इसलिए दूसरों से अपेक्षा कम या ना की अपेक्षा करें। 10. कभी भी अपनी खुशियों को किसी और के लिए बलिदान न करें। 11. आप जितने कम लोगों के साथ चिल करेंगे, आप उतने ही कम बकवास करेंगे। 12. सादा जीवन जीने से आपको महत्वपूर्ण चीजों के लिए अधिक समय मिलता है। 13. जितनी जल्दी आप अकेले रहना सीख जाते हैं, उतनी ही जल्दी आप जीवन का अर्थ स

How do I rebuild myself and build a strong fearless character?

If you didn’t work hard for yourself today , you’ll soon be working hard for someone else , Who’ll you be on the most stressful day of your life ? You’ll only have the mind you built for yourself . Keep checking in with yourself, You don’t want to be like most of your friends. Look at them, obsessed over a single woman who barely even gives them the time of the day . Pathetic ! Rise above them , Allowing yourself to be human is the most basic thing ever . There’s freedom in that space , Remember to connect with people now & then . In fact, pick up the phone, right now , & call a friend for no other reason than to say ”Hello “ . That’s great. Your network , like all living beings, needs to be fed in order for it to keep existing , Ask yourself “ how do I feel right now” . It’ll give you a chance to get out of your head & embrace the present . Embrace mindfulness as a way of living, Staying committed to healthy daily habits is like writing a series of love letters

अपनी वैल्यू बढ़ाने के कुछ टिप्स कौन सी हैं?

1. अपने इमोशंस पर कंट्रोल करें और एकदम से हंसना छोड़ दें। 2. सीधे और कंधे पीछे कर कर चले और लोगों की आंखों में आंखें डाल कर देखना सीखे। 3. हर दिन वो काम करें जिससे आप डरते हैं हर दिन वह काम करें जो लोग नहीं करते। 4. यदि आपको कुछ समझ नहीं आया तो अपनी शर्म को हटाए और दोबारा पूछ ले। 5. अगर आप कहते हैं कि मैं यह काम कर सकता हूं तो इसे पूरा करें 6. अपनी नजरों में ऊपर उठने की कोशिश करें दूसरों की नजरों में तो आप खुद ब खुद ऊपर उठ जाएंगे। Source: Sumit Gautam

How do you know if someone is mature or not?

Maturity is not when we start speaking big things. It is when we start understanding small things. Here are some traits of a mature person. You focus on the positive in life, by choice. You’re okay with being alone. You don’t seek what you want, you create it. Your career matters to you. Your happiness does not depend on others but your inner self. Materialistic things make you smile, but they do not define what happiness means. You keep a mind open to everything and attached to nothing. You sometimes prefer to be silent than to be a part of a nonsensical fight. You are cool-minded, not short-tempered. You don’t do things just to please others. Source: Mukul Chauhan

बुद्धिमान इंसान के लक्षण क्या होते हैं?

बुद्धिमान लोगों के दोस्त बहुत कम होते है। "मैं सही और तुम ग़लत", ऐसी फिजुल की बातों में ये अपना वक्त बर्बाद नहीं करते। "तुम सही हो",ऐसा कहकर आगे निकल जाते है। ज़्यादातर लोग बुद्धिमान लोगो को पागल कहते है, लेकिन इससे इन लोगों को फर्क नहीं पड़ता। बुद्धिमान लोग बहुत बार हारते हैं लेकिन रोते नहीं हैं, देखा जाए तो बुद्धिमान लोग बहुत बार जितते भी है लेकिन उसके बारे में किसीसे कहते नहीं है। ये लोग नकारात्मकता में भी सकारात्मकता ढुंढ सकते है। बुद्धिमान लोगों की बहुत सी बाते गुप्त(सिक्रेट) होती है। ये लोग बहुत बड़ी मुश्किलों का सामना कर सकते हैं। जैसे कि, किसी नजदीकी रिश्तेदार/व्यक्ती कि मृत्यु, तलाक़ इत्यादि। खुद कि पढ़ाई/नौकरी और परिवार इन बातों को बुध्दिमान लोग सबसे ज्यादा महत्व देते हैं। ये लोग सोशल मीडिया पर खुद की वाह-वाह नहीं करते है। इन लोगों का पेहनावा बहुत सीधा-साधा होता है। अगर कोई इनको तकलीफ देता है तो ये लोग झगड़ा नहीं करते और ना ही बदला लेने के लिए पीछे भागते है। इनके चेहरे पर हमेशा एक छोटी-सी मुस्कान होती है। कैसी भी हालातों में जिन लोगों के दिलों में खुशी होत

What should I do to improve my personality?

Your conduct must be calm. Too much frenzy, excitement or aggression makes you a people repellent. Be light, be calm, smile and take tough decisions. Never push yourself on people, don't do over to impress them; this acts against you. If someone doesn't wish to be impressed, this won't work at all. Be nice, be humble, be what you are and let people decide. Some would like you; some won't. Don't expect everyone to love you. One who doesn't care much about other people’s judgement about them stays free of the pressure of standing up to people's expectations. They walk on the chosen path with pride and respect themselves irrespective of achievements or failures. No high ego, no inferiority complex. Such people have a strong personality. Value your words; it's not that you have been given the power to speak so you can say countless meaningless words each day. Respect what you say, and consider it a verbal contract or commitment. Be right, and don

What are 20 things that are not worth it?

1. Chasing Girls. It might seem pleasurable during your teens and early 20s but trust me, you'll regret later. 2. Smoking. It only brings a temporary pleasure but the ill-effects will hurt you in the long run. 3. Drinking. Alcohol is known to destroy lives and families. The temporary pleasure it gives is not worth the pain it gives later on. 4. Doing Drugs. The fact that this is illegal is reason enough that one shouldn't do it. These take a toll on your body in the long run and destroys you. 5. Putting those extra hours in office. No person on their death bed has wished to have spent more time at office. Spend more time with your friends and family. 6. Being in a toxic relationship. There's no point in dragging a relationship where the other person hardly puts any effort. Save your time, efforts, dignity and walk away. 7. Worrying about things not under your control. Why worry about things that you cannot control in life? Will your worrying solve the problem? If its under

10 साधारण सी आदतें क्या हैं जो जीवन को बदल सकती हैं?

चुप रहना। ऊपर वाले ने दो कान दियें है उसका इस्तेमाल करना। लोगो की बकवास बातो को एक कान से सुनकर दूसरे से निकाल देना। अपने पास ब्रेन है और ब्रेन में कई भाग है, जिसमे आप तरह तरह के बातो को हर जगह जमा कर सकते है तो लोगो की अच्छी बातों को इकट्ठा किजिये और बाकी बातो पे मिट्टी डालिये। लोग कितना ही कियु न कहे के आप ये है ऐसे है वैसे है बिगड़ गए है आपमें सलीका नही है इन सब बातों पर भी मिट्टी डालिये और अपनी ज़िंदगी बिल्कुल एक आज़ाद बच्चे की तरह गुज़रिये, जिसे किसी चीज़ की फिक्र नही होती न कल की और न होने वाले हादसों की। अपने सिवा दुसरो पर भी नज़र रखिये खासकर अपने माता पिता पर कियुकि इंसान कि ज़िन्दगी में एक बार नुक्स लग जाए तो फिर डॉक्टर का चक्कर आम हो जाता है। और माता पिता एक ही बार मिलते है। अपने सकुन और खुशियो को दूसरों में नही ढूंढिए बलके खुश रह कर ज़िन्दगी गुज़रिये कियुकि खाने में नमक हो तो नामक की कमि महसूस नही होती और न हो तो खाना बहोत बदमजा लगता है उसी तरह से सच अगर आपके तारीफ में हो तो बुरा नही लगता और अगर आपके खिलाफ हो तो बहोत कड़वा लगता है। कभी कभी अपने दिमाग़ को सकुन दीजये आस पास ह

What are some important things in life people haven't understood yet?

We’re always thinking that someday we’ll be happy, when we get that car or job or person in our life that will fix everything, but we tend to forget, happiness is a mood & it’s a condition, not a destination . It’s not permanent, it comes & goes & that’s okay, We’re given this life coz we’re strong enough to live it . Failure will never exceed its limits if our determination to succeed is strong , We’ve to change our inner conversation to be amazing, brave, phenomenal , powerful beyond measure, more positive, supportive & optimistic . How we speak to ourselves can improve our mental wellness. We’ve to be kind to ourself, Nothing great happens without embracing change gleefully. It’s painful. There’re lot of shifts & realizations that must take place for a change to manifest, Let’s try to keep love in our heart at all times & if we can’t, at least don’t spread hate. It shouldn’t take death to respect someone , Are you doing what makes you happy or are

What are the 10 things that only smart people pay attention to?

Logic: Smart or highly intelligent people seek logic in all things. Anything that lacks logic is useless to them; anything with logic in it excites them. That’s why most scientists and geniuses have a very different opinion about God, heaven and hell, culture, customs, beliefs and faiths. It must have a logic to catch their attention. Excuse/ lies/ cover-ups: They can always spot excuses and lies which is why it is so hard fooling smart people. You know they can unnervingly see through you. Idea: Ideas leap from creative and imaginative thinking. They are usually brimming with ideas themselves and therefore extremely quick to recognise an idea in all situations however comic, tragic or impossible. That same idea may have been ridiculed, condemned or rejected a hundred times before by others. Novelty: Novelty in thoughts, deeds, situations or objects cannot stay hidden from smart people.. Justice and truth: They notice justice and fairness and will not differentiate between

What are some psychology hacks for self-improvement?

Life isn’t difficult. Getting along with people, isn’t difficult either, Encourage the other person to talk about themselves, Keep it simple & you’ll make her happy, The less you care , the happier you’ll be, Trying & failing puts you in the top 10% . Most people don’t even try , Competition exists. It’s always you versus you , Invest into fitness, Your actions should be dictated by your goals, Be calculating even when procrastinating, The one big thing that impacts your life is your Network. The more people you know, the more opportunities you’ll attract, Just Chill.!! Source: Mukul Royy

How you will increase your value?

Free your mind, go outside, have fun , Protect your private life , Changing your mind doesn’t mean you contradict yourself. It means you updated your worldview & got smarter, as you should, You just think coz you care . Probably you’ve a heart bigger than most people but there’s such a thing as caring too much ! Learn life, Write down your worries, so you don’t have to keep them all in your head, Don’t ask your woman for permission to be a man, Other people’s perception of you is not your responsibility. However, your actions & growth are . How you treat yourself & others ultimately defines the life you live, Communicating is one thing but your tone while communicating is everything, Work on a bankable skill , If you don’t have a plan , you’re a part of someone else’s plan, Just Chill.!! Source: Mukul Royy

What are some hacks that everyone should know?

Dress well, always. A lot depends on how you look! Pinch yourself if you can't stop laughing. At every job, you should either earn or learn. Either is fine. Both are best. But if it’s neither, quit. To exercise should be done daily, whatever the time. It doesn't matter if it is 5 minutes or 50 minutes. To keep bananas fresh for a longer time, wrap the top part of the bunch in plastic wrap. Research shows that the right ear is better at picking up words & speech, while the left ear is better at picking up music & other sounds. Adding a teaspoon of baking soda when you boil eggs and the shell will come off easily. If you place dry tea bags in smelly shoes and leave them for a few hours, the bad smell will go away. If you want to make sure the person you talk to is paying attention to you, start the conversation with “I shouldn’t be telling you this but…” You can make the elevator go faster by pressing “close” and your floor at the same time. Source:  Mukul Cha

How do I deal with toxic people when ignoring them is not an option?

Stop wishing they were different. Stay focused on the problem, not on their personality. Understand the “Why” Know their background, underlying securities that lead them to behave in that way. Stop Assuming their “Intention” Being felt misunderstood is frustrating and leads to further conflict. Find small, genuine compliments to give. Build on commonalities. Acknowledge, don’t argue.

Is permanent happiness possible?

Don’t exist for anybody’s convenience ! , Listen to your body more . If you feel like taking a nap , have one . Follow your intuition, & trust it rather than logically analysing every little thing , If you don’t know where you stand with someone , stand somewhere else . Anything blurry ? Fuzzy ? Confusing? It can’t be trusted . Don’t accept that shit , Eating clean is purposeful once you realize it expands your life to the fullest. People should be filling their diet with the most delicious “clean foods “ , 99.9% of the world isn’t thinking about you & the ones that are aren’t thinking about you that often . So stop worrying about what they think ; it doesn’t matter , You need to be humble enough to not let praise get to your head but cocky enough to not let insults get in your head , Many people use the argument , “ Money doesn’t bring happiness “ . Only delusional people can say that . Money is not the goal . Money helps you achieve the goal , If you c

How can I find my inner best?

Please don’t settle . Not in a job you hate , not in a town where you don’t feel at home , not with friendships that aren’t real , & especially not with the love, Small habits go a long way . Start going for a walk at 7 AM everyday , start doing breathing exercises for 5 minutes everyday , start getting up at 6 AM everyday , it could be anything . Choose whatever but be disciplined to do it daily, Your frequency is based on how you feel . Feel scared , & you’re attracting more of the same . Put your fears to ease & just believe, Hold yourself to higher standards than most people do . Ask more from yourself. Be better than those who shun responsibility, any standards , & commitment, Your struggle is the greatest catalyst for growth the world rewards you with, camouflaged as pain. 10 years down the road, you’ll realize how that same struggle shaped you into a better human being, You can’t wait for circumstances to get better . You’ve to create your own good fo

What is the difference between ego and self esteem?

A group of people is standing in front of you. One of them approaches you and asks you to join them. You agree. Now there are two possibilities - You don’t initiate any conversation with anyone in the group. You don’t laugh at their jokes. All in all you just ignore each and everyone of them. This is what we call ‘ego’ . You try talking with some of the group members but they don’t reciprocate with the same zeal. You try a little more but end up getting ignored by majority of them and then you finally walk out. This is what we call ‘self esteem’ .

How do you know when to give up and when to keep pushing?

Give up when You don't see a great future. Most of the time you complain. You are constantly stressed and under pressure to get your life sorted. You cry for some personal time. Keep pushing when- You know it's tough, but the results will make you happy. When you feel happy without any reason. When you don't realize how much time you invest in being good at it. When all you do is give a green tick mentally and emotionally. Source:  Ria Jha

How can you improve both your attitude and your mindset to live a higher quality of life?

Leave Things Simple - The bottom line is always simple. Remember that when life gets too complex and stop overcomplicating everything. Divide the problem into its simplest form and it won’t be nearly that scary. Let Stuff Go - What does not make you happier afterwards than before is something you should not keep in your life. Be willing to give things up for that makes room for better things. Keep a list you update regularly and cross out things regularly. Be Courageous - It is courage that creates experiences, and those experiences then create a much stronger mindset. Do at least one thing every month that requires you to be bold and brave. Hold Yourself Accountable - At the end of the day what matters is what you get done, not how you feel about it. You have to have a level of accountability to get to where you want to go. Start the week off by writing this “Must-Do” List and keep it very easy. Have Fun Along The Way - Keep a sense of baseline accountability. Know what things you nee

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