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How you will increase your value?

Free your mind, go outside, have fun , Protect your private life , Changing your mind doesn’t mean you contradict yourself. It means you updated your worldview & got smarter, as you should, You just think coz you care . Probably you’ve a heart bigger than most people but there’s such a thing as caring too much ! Learn life, Write down your worries, so you don’t have to keep them all in your head, Don’t ask your woman for permission to be a man, Other people’s perception of you is not your responsibility. However, your actions & growth are . How you treat yourself & others ultimately defines the life you live, Communicating is one thing but your tone while communicating is everything, Work on a bankable skill , If you don’t have a plan , you’re a part of someone else’s plan, Just Chill.!! Source: Mukul Royy

How do I deal with toxic people when ignoring them is not an option?

Stop wishing they were different. Stay focused on the problem, not on their personality. Understand the “Why” Know their background, underlying securities that lead them to behave in that way. Stop Assuming their “Intention” Being felt misunderstood is frustrating and leads to further conflict. Find small, genuine compliments to give. Build on commonalities. Acknowledge, don’t argue.

Is permanent happiness possible?

Don’t exist for anybody’s convenience ! , Listen to your body more . If you feel like taking a nap , have one . Follow your intuition, & trust it rather than logically analysing every little thing , If you don’t know where you stand with someone , stand somewhere else . Anything blurry ? Fuzzy ? Confusing? It can’t be trusted . Don’t accept that shit , Eating clean is purposeful once you realize it expands your life to the fullest. People should be filling their diet with the most delicious “clean foods “ , 99.9% of the world isn’t thinking about you & the ones that are aren’t thinking about you that often . So stop worrying about what they think ; it doesn’t matter , You need to be humble enough to not let praise get to your head but cocky enough to not let insults get in your head , Many people use the argument , “ Money doesn’t bring happiness “ . Only delusional people can say that . Money is not the goal . Money helps you achieve the goal , If you c

How can I find my inner best?

Please don’t settle . Not in a job you hate , not in a town where you don’t feel at home , not with friendships that aren’t real , & especially not with the love, Small habits go a long way . Start going for a walk at 7 AM everyday , start doing breathing exercises for 5 minutes everyday , start getting up at 6 AM everyday , it could be anything . Choose whatever but be disciplined to do it daily, Your frequency is based on how you feel . Feel scared , & you’re attracting more of the same . Put your fears to ease & just believe, Hold yourself to higher standards than most people do . Ask more from yourself. Be better than those who shun responsibility, any standards , & commitment, Your struggle is the greatest catalyst for growth the world rewards you with, camouflaged as pain. 10 years down the road, you’ll realize how that same struggle shaped you into a better human being, You can’t wait for circumstances to get better . You’ve to create your own good fo

What is the difference between ego and self esteem?

A group of people is standing in front of you. One of them approaches you and asks you to join them. You agree. Now there are two possibilities - You don’t initiate any conversation with anyone in the group. You don’t laugh at their jokes. All in all you just ignore each and everyone of them. This is what we call ‘ego’ . You try talking with some of the group members but they don’t reciprocate with the same zeal. You try a little more but end up getting ignored by majority of them and then you finally walk out. This is what we call ‘self esteem’ .

What makes someone charismatic?

Lacking Agenda: They aren’t fake nice. Guys are nice to girls because they want sex/relationship in return. Employees are nice to bosses because they want a promotion. Truly likable are nice to people without wanting anything in return i.e. being nice only when they feel like it. Noble Intentions: Even if they lack social charm, they don; ’t have wrong intentions of manipulation. Anyone can practice a few charisma tricks and make themselves likable but without good intentions, it won’t last long. Having Honor: They take the right action even if it means sacrificing their ego or pleasure. Example: accepting one’s mistake despite a blow on ego. Showing Humility: Being humble despite their achievements. They are open to learning from others. Mark Zuckerberg, Einstein, despite their talents, had mentors. Lacking Desperation: They have a life. They know their priorities. Self-improvement and work are more important to them than begging for strangers' times and approval. Not Judging: The

How do you know when to give up and when to keep pushing?

Give up when You don't see a great future. Most of the time you complain. You are constantly stressed and under pressure to get your life sorted. You cry for some personal time. Keep pushing when- You know it's tough, but the results will make you happy. When you feel happy without any reason. When you don't realize how much time you invest in being good at it. When all you do is give a green tick mentally and emotionally. Source:  Ria Jha

How can you improve both your attitude and your mindset to live a higher quality of life?

Leave Things Simple - The bottom line is always simple. Remember that when life gets too complex and stop overcomplicating everything. Divide the problem into its simplest form and it won’t be nearly that scary. Let Stuff Go - What does not make you happier afterwards than before is something you should not keep in your life. Be willing to give things up for that makes room for better things. Keep a list you update regularly and cross out things regularly. Be Courageous - It is courage that creates experiences, and those experiences then create a much stronger mindset. Do at least one thing every month that requires you to be bold and brave. Hold Yourself Accountable - At the end of the day what matters is what you get done, not how you feel about it. You have to have a level of accountability to get to where you want to go. Start the week off by writing this “Must-Do” List and keep it very easy. Have Fun Along The Way - Keep a sense of baseline accountability. Know what things you nee

What is the best mindset to have?

Sometimes, Saying “ I don’t know” is a smart strategy, Realize that your actions have consequences , Build a legit wardrobe for the first time in your life. An ideal men’s wardrobe is lean , versatile, functional & makes you look stylish & generates confidence for any occasion, Isolate yourself at times from everything but never from yourself . Ignoring reality won’t make them go away, Don’t read success stories , you’ll only get messages. Read failure stories, you’ll get some ideas to get success, Don’t measure life in terms of money, measure in terms of freedom, Set an intention to bring positive energy to everything you do , No excuses for weakness please ! Your excuses will escort you to the grave, To protect your sanity, get selfish with your energy. Stop giving it to arguments on the internet, Remember, 99% of your biggest worries will never come to you, Just Chill.!! Source:  Mukul Royy

What are the secrets that everyone has to know?

Everyone has at least four personalities: 1) the personality they want everyone else to know, 2) the personality they don’t want anyone else to know, 3) the shameful personality they’d rather die than reveal, and 4) the personality they don't understand. The difference between the rich and the poor is their way of thinking. One thinks they cannot be rich until they stumble upon some kind of luck. The other thinks that since they have no luck, they must go and create their own luck. Everyone would be extremely rich, if only they could discover their real value. However, this is almost impossible because everyone has been taught how to sell their time for money. Don't set out to save the world. Set out to get the world to understand you. It is better to die trying to be rich than to be a spectator of people who are on their way to becoming filthy rich. Besides, the air is much cleaner at the top than below. We live in a world where ideas control thoughts, people, and

What are the dynamics of personal transformation

At least once a day , laugh at yourself . Take your work seriously , not yourself , Approach life like a professional. Work when you’re not in the mood for it . Train when you’re a little bit tired . Talk to her even if you’re not drunk , Most men are happy to be mediocre . If you’re aiming for something big , be prepared to feel lonely, You don’t have time to please everybody . You must complete your tasks regardless. Put your interests first, If you’re uncomfortable with hate you’ll never get far in life . Understand , every significant results come with detractors, false accusations , rumours etc . Accept it with smile , If you’re too dominant, & outspoken , people will avoid you due to their fear of being mistreated , crushed or balatantly outshined. If you’re too weak , you’re useless. People will avoid you due to their desire to not associate themselves with unworthy individuals that make them look bad . Learn life !! , When you’ve just one business, you accept ev

How do I practice living in present?

Take care of yourself internally & your life will change externally, for the better, Your energy is flowing to wherever your attention is going . It all comes back to you eventually. Be mindful of what you put out, Appreciate your life despite not having what you want. It’ll give you happiness that you strongly desire, Meditate. Cleanse . Read . Excercise . Cook . Do something productive instead of investing your precious energy in discussing & belittling others, Pay attention to good feelings. Be unapologetically authentic. Let go of unhelpful beliefs, Keeping calm while being misunderstood & slandered by others is superpower, Uphold your boundaries. Honour them . Watch how things & people in life change, No matter what happens in life, there’s always a reason behind it. Even if you don’t understand it at the very moment, you’ll understand in time, Stay open to learning from everyone. But remember that the highest authority in life is always your own heart,

What are things mentally strong people do every day?

They choose to be happy. Their train was delayed by 20 minutes today? So what? Someone accidentally spilled coffee all over their brand new sneakers? So what? A coworker was rude to them at the office? So what? A mentally strong person understands that they are incapable of controlling other people’s actions. Thus, they always choose to be happy because that is the only thing one can control in life. They are not people pleasers. They are not afraid to say no when someone oversteps their boundaries. They won’t feel pressured to attend an event that they are not interested in. They know to put themselves first before others. They reflect often or at the end of the day. A mentally strong person is not perfect. They may have lost their temper a day ago at their partners. They may harbour feelings of inadequacy or jealousy towards a fellow coworker. What matters is that they take time to question their behaviour and emotions. Through self reflection, one is able to identify the

What makes intelligent people intelligent?

I try to differentiate an intelligent person from one that simply has common sense (especially since one does not guarantee the other): Intelligent people see what could be, common sense people see what is Intelligent people think abstractly, common sense people think practically Intelligent people think unilaterally, connecting multiple fields of study. Common sense people focus on a niche and add to the same topic Intelligent people focus on statistics, common sense people focus on  experience Intelligent people push limits, common sense people take advantage of what already is established Intelligent people think inside-out, common sense people think outside-in Intelligent people blend things together, common sense people keep things in their separate boxes Intelligent people take risks, common sense people prefer security Intelligent people see second and third order effects, common sense people a continuation of the same effect Intelligent people connect unlike things,

What are the 5 life changing tips?

Being good with women is a skill , a frame , an attitude, not a genetic trait . Don’t jump to her. Let her feel your intent.  Many people will claim they love themselves just the way they’re. Yet are overweight, immobile & binge eating junk food . Why would you do anything to hurt yourself if you love yourself ? , If you can’t find contentment in your current circumstances, you won’t find it once you’ve “ achieved “ your ideal situation, By being aware that life is temporary, one ensures that he lives to the maximum while still alive . Your fulfilment is more important than their approval, There’s so much peace in just chilling & minding your own business.  Source: Mukul Royy

How can I become less critical of others?

Being a gentleman is always a good idea , Quietly observing instead of reacting to everything you notice is top tier growth, Simplify your routine, you’ll know when it’s time to mix things up, Shed your confirmation biases, be open- minded , & approach , Lack of communication leaves room for imagination, it’s real, Everything is only obvious in retrospect. Don’t label yourself . Don’t blame yourself too much . Learn & do better next time, Declutter & reorganize your most frequently used spaces, There’ll be moments when you’ll be tempted to do the wrong even while knowing that you shouldn’t do it. If you only could control this state of temptation !! , Always be yourself. Live within your means, don’t pretend to be something you’re not. It’s okay, Life isn’t fair, you’ve to accept that & do the best you can regardless, Just Chill.!! Source : Mukul Royy

What are the traits of a person who has an above-average IQ?

You can’t pull them into humdrum storms, chit chat and small talk. They get bored with that and even loathe them. Start an interesting topic and they will dive in as if they had always been there. They don’t waste time doing superficial, uninteresting, ususal, common things that don’t benefit them in the long run, whether at work, or at meetings, discussions, debates or even fights. They know when to lose in order to gain later, or lose less in order to gain more. Their calculation is unnerving and not always obvious. They will gladly let you be wrong if they think correcting you is not beneficial in any way. So if one is asking for casual advice the intelligent will usually say very little or nothing at all. They have different and sometimes (well, most of the times) weird opinion/ ideas and questions that can unsettle most people and even irritate them. They are hazardous for team work and more hated than respected for their singularity. If you are intelligent and highly

What should I learn from an intelligent person to improve my life?

You’ll never live if you’re looking for the meaning of life, Confidence can’t be faked. You’re or you’re not, A big secret to longevity is living a low stress life. You can’t control things outside you. You can only control your response, Stop giving a shit what people think of you. Realize they’re hardly thinking of you at all , Rejection is a myth & only exists in the mind, Getting rich is hard , but being broke is also hard . So which hard life are you choosing ? , Be careful what you tolerate. You’re teaching people how to treat you , You’ll have an extremely difficult time persuading someone if you’re not calm , Our greatest addiction is focusing on other people’s lives & noticing what others should be doing better, Problems are common but attitude makes the difference, Just Chill.!! Source : Mukul Royy

What makes life enjoyable to live?

A loaded bank account , a healthy relationship, & a comfortable life is what most people will like to have, but it’s not enough to live only, you must be determined to live for something , Never stop smiling, not even when you’re sad , someone might fall in love with your smile, Live the actual moment . Only this actual moment is life, Be forgiving with your past self . Be strict with your present self . Be flexible with your future self, Experiencing someone who completely understands you & relates to your experiences is like finding a treasure chest in the trenches of ocean, Life is a constant battle between you & your mental limitations. You should overcome yourself a bit more everyday , If you’re not sure , the answer is “no”, You can’t expect to see changes if you keep repeating the same shit . You need to branch out & try new things to find yourself & your passions . Challenge yourself, accept change & find the real you, Crazy how peaceful life

What are the top 5 tacit rules in life?

Love the people who treat you right. Forget about those who don’t. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it  Life is a risk doesn’t mean you should be careless. Take calculated risks otherwise your life will be a chronicle of mistakes, Alone time is very powerful & the first step towards finding yourself again, For a man to truly maintain a loving relationship, he must learn to become emotionally vulnerable . He must feel his partner’s pain, share her concerns & give her affection. Be honest when in trouble . Be humble when in power . Be silent when in anger, Just Chill.!! Source : Mukul Royy

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