What are some psychological things that people don’t know about attraction?

What we find and not find attractive is basically biologically wired into us. Even babies gaze longer at more attractive faces.

• Most people find symmetry and other hallmarks of good health attractive.
• More typical or average features are considered more attractive.
• Feminine features (full lips, round cheeks) make women more attractive. And masculine (square jaw, deep set eyes) make men more attractive.
• Younger looking faces (clear skin, bright eyes) are perceived as more attractive.
• Men especially consider younger and more typical features particularly attractive.
• Women place more importance on looking more feminine.
• Women care less about men’s physical appearance.
• Women who consider themselves physically attractive, are more likely to choose men with strong masculine features.
• Women consider men with hairless chests and flat bellies more attractive.
• Men like full lips, high forehead, broad face, small chin, small nose, short and narrow jaw, high cheekbones, clear and smooth skin, and wide-set eyes.
• Women walking with hip sway and men walking with swagger are perceived much more attractive.

Source : Elena Ledoux

What are some cool psychological hacks?

1. If someone is angry with you and you keep calm, they may be more angry. But then they'll be ashamed of themselves.

2. If someone keeps talking and you can't get in the conversation, you drop something on the ground (key, pen, etc.), you bend down to pick it up and start talking. In this way, you can interrupt the other party without being noticed.

3. If someone is bothering you at your desk all the time, keep talking to him, but get up and walk back to his desk together. There was a boss who was very good at this before. He would take you back to your desk, and then you wonder how I came back.

4. When a group of people laugh, everyone will look at their favorite person.

5. Before the interview, arrive at the interview place in advance and chat with strangers for 20 minutes. This will make your brain feel familiar with the environment, which will make you more confident.

6. If you suddenly think of the ugliness that happened n years ago and feel very shameful, stop and think about the person who saw it. Can you remember the ugliness that happened to him? Not at all. Similarly, no one will remember your humiliating moments.

7. If you have no motivation to learn a skill (an instrument or a foreign language, etc.), tell yourself: OK, I'll sit down and learn for five minutes. Most of the time, you end up sitting for more than five minutes. Even if you only sit for five minutes, it's better than no trying.

8. People will associate you with adjectives you use on other people. This phenomenon is called "unconscious feature transfer". That is to say, if you say that a person is sincere and kind, people will associate these qualities with you. If you always speak ill of others behind your back, people will also associate these negative comments with you.

9. If you feel that someone is looking at you, you can look at your watch or where you wear it. If the person is looking at you, he will also subconsciously look at his wrist / watch.[

10. If you are anxious in conversation and eye contact makes you feel stressed, you can try to look in the middle of each other's eyes. It makes you look friendly and confident.

Source : Louisa Liu

What is something about human psychology that almost nobody knows?

1. Physical contact can effectively improve the intimacy of two people. In the relationship, many people have a misunderstanding that there is only one way to upgrade the relationship: confession. Confession is not a trumpet to launch a charge, but a flag to declare victory. It means that the time for confession must be to confirm the relationship when the other party has enough affection for you. The most effective means to upgrade the relationship is active physical contact.

2. Single people are more likely to get sick.The most important demand for intimacy is the need to belong. If this demand is not met, there will be a variety of problems.

The loss of intimacy can damage people's health. People's blood pressure is higher and their immune system is weaker after divorce than when they have a happy marriage. When we are alone, our immune response becomes weaker and we are more prone to colds and flu.

3. "Murphy's law" in love.In front of the girls / boys, they are especially afraid of making mistakes. However, it is easy to behave deliberately unnatural and make the other party lose interest in themselves.

4. What you can't get is always in a commotion: the magic of "intermittent reinforcement".Psychologist Skinner has done such an experiment: three cats are locked in three different devices. The first cat will have cat food as long as it touches the button, the second will give cat food at will after touching the button, and the third cat will not give cat food no matter how it touches it.

After a certain period of domestication, which cat touches the button most frequently?

The second one!

In a relationship, there's nothing more compelling than this randomness.

5. Primacy effect.First impressions are more important than you think. After a brief meeting with a person for the first time, his judgment on others is profound and lasting. Early cognition can also affect people's judgment after a few months. If we are disgusted with someone in the first meeting, we will avoid any further contact with them. However, when other characteristics of new friends are discovered in time, the first impression will continue to affect our evaluation.

6. Perfect love = passion + commitment + intimacy.What is a perfect love like?American psychologist Steinberg has given such a conclusion that a perfect love should have these three elements: passion, intimacy and commitment, which is the classic "love triangle theory".

7. Romantic love will end.It is often said that love has a shelf life, or that love will eventually become family affection. Its psychological essence is that the passion part of love will be exhausted. In the past, as long as you see each other's heart beat, want to know each other's past, hobbies, ideas for you, every communication with expectations. However, as we get along with each other and understand each other, the sense of freshness decreases, the hormone secretion decreases, and the passion burns out, but the intimacy and commitment are not established. Naturally, such an intimate relationship seems awkward and strange.

मनोविज्ञान से जुड़े अनसुनी सच्चाई क्या है?

1- शरीर की हर कोशिकाओं पर हमारे विचारों का प्रभाव पड़ता हैं। यदि विचारों में नकारात्मकता ज्यादा है तो रोग प्रतिरोधक क्षमता घट जाती है जिससे आप बहुत ज्यादा बीमार रहते हैं।

2- यदि कोई व्यक्ति ज्यादा सोता है तो वो ज्यादा उदास रहता है।

3- डिप्रेशन में जाना overthinking का नतीजा है। इस समय हमारा दिमाग उन प्रोब्लेम्स को create करने लग जाता है जिनका कोई अस्तित्व ही नहीं है।

4- यदि कोई व्यक्ति छोटी छोटी बातों पर भी ज्यादा हँसता है तो वो अपने आप को अंदर से अकेला महसूस करता है।

5- हमारा दिमाग जितना दिन में चलता है उससे तेज़ वो रात में वो भी सोते समय चलता है। इसके आलावा अकेला शरीर में सबसे ज्यादा ऊर्जा की खपत करता है।

6-मनोवैज्ञानिकों के अनुसार जिन लोगों को अपनी मातृ भाषा के आलावा कोई अन्य भाषा भी आती है वे लोग ज्यादा बेहतर तरीके से निर्णय लेने में सक्षम रहते हैं।

7- आप जितने ज्यादा ठन्डे कमरे में सोयेंगे, रात को उतना ही डरावना सपना आने का चांस बढ़ जायेगा।

8- किसी Joke पर हंसने के लिए हमारे दिमाग को पांच अलग-अलग हिस्सों में काम करना पड़ता है।

9- 60% लोग अपने Life की Negative चीज़ों से दूर भागने के लिए Music सुनते हैं।

10- सोने से पहले जिस आखिरी व्यक्ति का ख्याल आपके मन में आता है, वो आपकी ख़ुशी या दुःख का कारण होता है।

Source: Dharmik Gangani