लड़कियों के बारे में कौनसी गलतफहमियां लड़कों के मन में हमेशा रहती है?

1- लड़की का फ्रेंडरिक्वेस्ट मिलने पर लगता है मुझमें कुछ खास है या लड़की मुझे पसंद करती है बाद में पता चलता है कि मेरे जैसे 3000+ उसके फ्रेंड लिस्ट में हैं।

2- लड़के भावनाओं में बहकर लड़कियों से अपने दिल की बात कर देते हैं, कई गहरे राज भी बता देते हैं लेकिन वही लड़की बाद में इन्हीं सब बातों को दूसरों से बता कर मजे लेती है। लड़कों को लगता है लड़की मेरी हमराज बनी रहेगी।

3- लड़कों को लगता है मैकडॉनल्ड का हैमबर्गर, चीज बर्गर , केएफसी का फ्राइड चिकन या स्टारबक्स का डबल शॉट आन आइस, कोल्ड ब्रू कॉफी पिला कर लड़की हमेशा के लिए उनकी हो जाएगी तो यह भी गलतफहमी है।

4- लड़के मोबाइल फोन गिफ्ट देकर सोचते हैं कि लड़की सिर्फ मुझसे बात करती है तो बेचारे मासूम हैं । लड़की अपने फ्रेंड के ब्वायफ्रेंड की फोटो देख कर‌ भी आहें भरा करती है।

5- लड़कों को लगता है कि लड़कियों को भी लड़कों की जरूरत रहती है तो यह भी गलतफहमी है अगर लड़की सेल्फ डिपेंड है तो उसे किसी प्यार इश्क की जरूरत नहीं महसूस होती।

6- लड़की अगर स्माइल दे रही है तो लड़के को लगता है मैं बहुत हैंडसम लग रहा हूं जबकि वह आपको जोकर समझ कर हंस रही है।

7- स्टाइलिश लुक, जिम वाली बॉडी, सिक्स पैक ऐब्स बनाकर लड़की पटाने वाले भूल जाते हैं कि लड़की 6 डिजीट में कमाने वाले लड़के को पसंद करती है।

8- लड़कों को लगता है लड़कियां कमजोर होती है लेकिन जब वे अपने पर आ जाती हैं तब सभी उनसे हार जाते हैं।

9- लड़कियां भी पोर्न, सिगरेट, वाइन की शौकिन होती हैं । यह बात मुझे भी नहीं पता था। मुझे लगता था कि लड़कियों को इन सब से नफ़रत है लेकिन वे भी यह पसंद करती हैं।

10- आने वाले समय में लड़कियां हर उस फिल्ड में बेहतरीन काम करेंगी जो सिर्फ मर्दों के लिए आरक्षित किया गया है। लड़कों को समझ जाना चाहिए कि कोई भी काम उनके लिए कठिन या असंभव नहीं है।

Source : Chandra Prakash Tiwari

Why is an unconventional approach good for investing

It depends how you define unconventional. I would make a distinction between actions and words.

The following things are considered conventional, or at least somewhat mainstream, advice

1. Be diversified
2. Never time the markets
3. Don’t panic during crashes
4. Don’t get too excited in the good times
5. Don’t stock pick or speculate with 90%-100% of your portfolio.
6. Don’t try to watch the news and think you can see trends.
7. Watch your spending habits so you can invest more in the first place
8. Don’t trade too often. Rebalance at most.
9. Not letting our emotions get the better of us. Often we are subconsciously emotional as well. For example, studies have shown we are more likely to buy Amazon shares if we live near the warehouse, as the familiarity makes us feel more comfortable. Yet we don’t actively think we are buying Amazon stocks due to that emotion.
10. Not thinking this time is different every time there is an event like 9/11, covid or 2008. People get drawn into stories too easily.

These might be conventional pieces of advice. Yet how many people do I know that have kept to this through thick and thin for decades?

I know very few. I know plenty who managed to do it for 1, 2, 5 or even 10 years.

I have seldom met a person who has managed to do it for 10, 20 or 30 years.

Perhaps the reason is to do with human nature. It is natural to get afraid during the bad times, be overconfident or fearful.

Therefore, the money is in doing what others won’t do, not knowing something that others won’t do.

It is like in business, the money is in the execution, not the idea. Everybody has million dollar ideas.

Even homeless people do. The key is executing ideas for the long-term, not just having ideas.

The same is true in investing. The money is in being unconventional in terms of our actions, not words.

Slow and steady can win the investing race, but few people find it exciting.

Yet it is profitable as Soros’ says below:

So, unconventional can be good, if it is directly towards the right actions.

It gets negative when people try to be too smart for their own good.

What are some psychological things that people don’t know about attraction?

What we find and not find attractive is basically biologically wired into us. Even babies gaze longer at more attractive faces.

• Most people find symmetry and other hallmarks of good health attractive.
• More typical or average features are considered more attractive.
• Feminine features (full lips, round cheeks) make women more attractive. And masculine (square jaw, deep set eyes) make men more attractive.
• Younger looking faces (clear skin, bright eyes) are perceived as more attractive.
• Men especially consider younger and more typical features particularly attractive.
• Women place more importance on looking more feminine.
• Women care less about men’s physical appearance.
• Women who consider themselves physically attractive, are more likely to choose men with strong masculine features.
• Women consider men with hairless chests and flat bellies more attractive.
• Men like full lips, high forehead, broad face, small chin, small nose, short and narrow jaw, high cheekbones, clear and smooth skin, and wide-set eyes.
• Women walking with hip sway and men walking with swagger are perceived much more attractive.

Source : Elena Ledoux

What are some cool psychological hacks?

1. If someone is angry with you and you keep calm, they may be more angry. But then they'll be ashamed of themselves.

2. If someone keeps talking and you can't get in the conversation, you drop something on the ground (key, pen, etc.), you bend down to pick it up and start talking. In this way, you can interrupt the other party without being noticed.

3. If someone is bothering you at your desk all the time, keep talking to him, but get up and walk back to his desk together. There was a boss who was very good at this before. He would take you back to your desk, and then you wonder how I came back.

4. When a group of people laugh, everyone will look at their favorite person.

5. Before the interview, arrive at the interview place in advance and chat with strangers for 20 minutes. This will make your brain feel familiar with the environment, which will make you more confident.

6. If you suddenly think of the ugliness that happened n years ago and feel very shameful, stop and think about the person who saw it. Can you remember the ugliness that happened to him? Not at all. Similarly, no one will remember your humiliating moments.

7. If you have no motivation to learn a skill (an instrument or a foreign language, etc.), tell yourself: OK, I'll sit down and learn for five minutes. Most of the time, you end up sitting for more than five minutes. Even if you only sit for five minutes, it's better than no trying.

8. People will associate you with adjectives you use on other people. This phenomenon is called "unconscious feature transfer". That is to say, if you say that a person is sincere and kind, people will associate these qualities with you. If you always speak ill of others behind your back, people will also associate these negative comments with you.

9. If you feel that someone is looking at you, you can look at your watch or where you wear it. If the person is looking at you, he will also subconsciously look at his wrist / watch.[

10. If you are anxious in conversation and eye contact makes you feel stressed, you can try to look in the middle of each other's eyes. It makes you look friendly and confident.

Source : Louisa Liu

Who are some of the famous Jain Businessmen in World?

1. GAUTAM ADANI (Adani Group.)

Richest Jain and the second richest Indian, Gautam adani, owner of Adani Group, a multinational Indian conglomerate company, headquartered in Ahmedabad, Gujarat. India's largest port developer and operator.

In gujarat we say if you're cooking with fortune oil, ADANI aapke ghar mein hai (ADANI's in your home).

And wait before we move ahead, ADANI's are not sindhi's, neither Gujarat's CM rupani ji, nor computer tycoon Patani ji they're all Jains.

2. DILIP SHANGHVI (SUN PHARMACEUTICALS')

Dilip Shanghvi ,The man who own India's Largest pharmaceuticals company 'Sun pharmaceuticals' which also shelters RANBAXY now.

3. INDU JAIN (Times of india.)

Owner of TIMES group, India's Largest newspaper and print media group, the times of India belongs to Jain family headed by INDU Jain, not to mention one of the richest Indian women till date.

4. MP LODHA (LODHA GROUP)
India's richest reality tycoon, owns Largest real estate company which gave india it's tallest sky scraper lodha the park ,shri hon. Minister Mangal prabhat lodha a prominent jain entrepreneur.

5. RUSELL MEHTA (Rosy blue Diamonds)

Jains have special connection with diamonds and holds maximum diamond related business in a country. The Largest diamond company of india Rosy blue is established by a palanpuri Jain Russell mehta, whose daughter Shloka mehta recently tied knot with son of richest indian MUKESH AMBANI.

6. Bhawarlal JAIN (JAIN IRRIGATION SYSTEMS (JISL) :- India's largest Micro irrigation firm, own by Shri BHAWARLAL Jain, Also the founder of Gandhi research Foundation.

7. SUDHIR & SAMIR MEHTA( Torrent Group ):-

Owned by The brothers Sudhir and samir mehta are not just Rich but are also known for their Charity works. Young and sensible.

8. MADHUKAR PAREKH (Pidilite industries ):- Fevicol king Madhukar Parekh, a devout Jain runs the largest adhesive firm in a country.

Even if i count just on billionaires, list won't end soon..

Hasmukh Chudgar (Intas Pharmaceuticals)

Rajesh Mehta (Rajesh Exports- India's largest gold & bullion exports)

Devendra Jain (Inox Group)

Anurang Jain (Endurance Technologies)

Tarang Jain (Varroc Engineering)

Mofatraj Munot (Kalpataru group)

Subhash Runwal (Runwal Builders)

Abhay Firodia ( Force motors)

Dilip Surana (Micro Labs)

Ashok Patni (RK Marbles)

Narendra patni (Patni Computers)

Ajit Gulabhchand (HCC)

Kasturbhai Lalbhai (Arvind mills)

Motilal Oswal (Motilal Oswal Group)

Nirmal Jain ( IIFL Holdings)

Nimesh Kampani (JM Financials)

Anurag Jain, Mufatraj munot, Vinay maloo, Anand surana, Bhadresh shah, Bhavin Turakhia, Méhul choksi, Premchand Godha, Kasliwals and many others are still in a row…

Jains are iconic in businesses since centuries, even though Jains have always been prosperous, they have made much more remarkable progress in 21st century and Captivated one fourth of forbes list of wealthiest Indians stat.

Source: Atul Singhal

What are some lesser known facts about BR Chopra's Mahabharata?

• Each actor was paid Rs 3000 per episode, no matter how small your role was. (Except - foot soldiers). This was literally amazing. No matter you are playing Arjun or a maid, you will still get 3000 rs. That's an equality.
• Gufi Paintal (Shakuni) was a casting director and his younger brother Paintal played the role of Shikhandi(Amba’s next birth)

He is Paintal.

• Pankaj Dheer (Karna) initially auditioned for the role of Arjun.
• Feroz Shah(Arjun) changed his name to Arjun after playing his role in mahabharata. Nazneen(Kunti) changed her religion from Islam to Hinduism.
• Our beloved Mukesh Khanna aka Bhishma Pitamah, remained unmarried as, Pitamah was also unmarried. He also opened a production house called as Bheeshma International.
• Roopa Ganguly was teased as ‘fatty’ on the sets of Mahabharata.
• Shooting fighting scenes were the most challenging.
• Budget of this show was supposed to be Rs 6 lakh per episode but it was increased to Rs 7.5 lakh per episode.
• BRC Mahabharata is said to be most accurate one. But it is still 60% true.
• Events like Rajsyu yagya battles are missing.
• Actually, it was not Draupadi who said ’Andhe ka putra andha’(Translation : Blind’s son is also blind) , and some more events are twisted a little bit.
• Whitewashing of Karna started from this show only. He was strong but he did not do much of practice like Arjuna. Though he was son of Surya Dev(God) but there were mortals who were much stronger than him. Nepotism didn't helped him. Actually, he was a bad person. He was involved in Lakshya Greha and he only ordered Dusshashan for disrobing Draupadi. These were not shown in BRC Mahabharata.
• Still it is considered as the most accurate one.

Source : Harsh Anand

What are some rare pictures that we have never seen?

1. Bill Gates Mugshot for Driving without a license, 1977:

2. Mark Zuckerburg Working as Video Game Developer

3. Jeff Bezos Flipping Burgers at MC’donalds

4. Elon Musk Writing Video Game Codes, (Started at age 12)

5. Steve Jobs first job at Atari

6. Tim Cook’s High School Yearbook Photos

7. Bill Gates and Jeff Bezos as kids

8. One of the first ever Model T Fords

9. The Titanic. The Day before it left from the harbor. 1912

10. The plane of 911, as it is in the air before hitting the Twin Towers

Thanks so much everyone!

I hope you enjoyed the photos!

Source : Willo Oscar

What are some photos that were taken right before something bad happened?

Russian Andrey Retrovsky, fell from the building to his death, all for a perfect Instagram post.

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An 18 year old girl accidentally made contact between two live wires while taking a selfie on top of a train. A current with the strenght of 27,000 volts went through her body resulting in burns and finally death.

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Robert Overacker was trying to raise awareness for the homeless.His plan was to jet- ski over Niagara Falls and parachute down. Unfortunately, the parachute didn't open and he ended up falling to his death over the falls.

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The boy in this photo was doing a back flip and after landing, he unfortunately slipped and fell to his death.

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These friends were so preoccupied to take selfie that they did not hear the train blowing horn and unfortunately moments later, they died.

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Japanese student Ayano Tokumasa, standing tall wearing red colour in the background, slipped and fell into Niagara Falls to her death.

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Karl Wallenda, a circus legend, did most of his routines without any safety. The photo below was taken shortly before his fall from 121 feet.

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A man went to zoo in Delhi where he slipped and fell into the cage of a tiger . He was dragged by his neck to tiger's den.

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Last photo of Australian wildlife presenter, Steve Irwin. He was killed by a stingray which struck its tail right into his heart.

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Two nurses standing in front of an Ebola patient in 1976. The nurse named Mating N'Seta (left) contracted the virus and ended up dying.

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In 2014, 25 engineering students drowned after the nearby Larji hydroelectric project released a large amount of water upstream. The pic was taken just moments before.

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Photo of the Twin towers captured by Even Kuz on September 10, 2001, just less than 24 hours before the towers fell down.

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On December 26 2004, Southeast Asia was struck with a tsunami, which killed around 230,000 people. The photo below is taken just before the disaster.

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Keith Saps Ford, a 14 year old teenager, was hiding in the wheel well of this flight headed to Japan from Sydney in 1970. An amateur photographer took this photo while he was testing his camera.

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Paul Walker's last photo, moments before his crash in 2013.

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Last photo of the Titanic afloat.

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The above pictures represent the moment between life and death. It is so sad that some tragedies were self induced.

लोग आपका सम्मान क्यों नहीं करते ?

1. जब आप लोगों के लिए ज्यादा उपलब्ध रहने लगते हैं तो लोग आपका सम्मान करना छोड़ देते हैं
2. जब आप लोगों से बहुत ही ज्यादा समझदारी और प्यार से बात करते हैं तो लोग आप का मजाक बनाने लगते हैं
3. जब हमारे पास पैसे नहीं होते
4. जब तक हम अपने जीवन में कुछ कर नहीं लेते लोग आपका सम्मान नहीं करेंगे
5. लोगों के साथ बदतमीजी से बात करना
6. जब आप लोगों से चिपकना शुरू कर देते हैं तो लोग आपको अपने आप से दूर करने की कोशिश करने लगते हैं
7. आपके पास कोई हुनर ना होना आज के समय में ऐसे व्यक्ति की इज्जत की जाती है जिसके पास कोई अपना हुनर हो
8. जब आप मोटे पतले या फिर अच्छे नहीं दिखते तो लोग आपका मजाक बनाते हैं
9. जब आप अच्छे कपड़े नहीं पहनते हैं
10. जब आप लोगों से किसी भी स्थान में पीछे होते हैं तो वह आपका मजाक बनाते हैं

मुझे यह सब बातें बोलते हुए बहुत ही ज्यादा दुख हो रहा है परंतु यह विज्ञान की दृष्टि से भी साफ हो चुका है कि यह सारे मनोवैज्ञानिक तथ्य सच है

Source : Sumit Gautam